Children should be seen, heard…and had

By Rohini Mohan

A two-part series on adoption

From diaperdom to grandchildren, from soccer practice to graduation, from the tooth fairy to teenage, parenthood is one wondrous, heady, incredible journey. Sure there are tense moments and crazy moments and hectic ones and frustrating ones. I have felt more than once that I am just not equal to the job. But I do know for a fact that I never want to get off this treadmill, because raising a kid is just so worth it. There are those who will not have kids which is a matter of choice. But where do you turn when you want to have kids and cannot?

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Ek, do, teen

By Vidya Pradhan
“Uh se akhbaar, aah se aam”, chant a group of kids in a classroom in Forest Park Elementary school in the Indian-heavy Ardenwood district of Fremont. Led by patient teacher Chitra Jayaraman, the kids are attempting to reestablish roots that have been diluted by exposure to an all-English environment.

The after school Hindi program is run by the US Hindi Association (USHA), the brainchild of Prerana Vaidya and Ruchita Parat. 

Guru or Shishya?

By Sukanya Mahadevan
Growing up in India, dancing Bharathanatyam was part of my life and spirit. At first it was forced on me by my mom. After several teachers and my mom’s failed attempts at motivating me to be the famous dancer that she could never be, we hit the jackpot with my aunt.

I learned early on that there were no special privileges for being a ‘niece’. I had to call her aunty or ‘ma’am’ like the rest and there was a line of reverence that you never crossed. Well, never say never!

Kid-friendly San Antonio

By Vidya Pradhan
Travel tip No. 1. If vacationing in winter, make sure your connections are not through blizzard prone areas. I learnt this the hard way when we missed our connecting flight through Denver the week of the big snowstorm. After scrambling around for alternate flights we finally found some tickets on Southwest 2 days later. Of course we did get snowed by the full price fares. Sigh! Anniversary and birthday presents are on indefinite hold now.

San Antonio is such a little known holiday destination among my friends and acquaintances that everyone I told about it assumed we were visiting relatives. But the idea came from some website which assured us that kids would have plenty to keep them entertained. And raising a couple of Gen Z kids with low attention spans and boredom thresholds made that the most important criterion. 

Freedom at Megamart

By Nirupama Subramaniam
I remember the time when our NRI cousins would visit us from the lands of plenty, laden with Toblerone chocolates, plump pink dolls with blue eyes that actually closed and clothes that would never wrinkle. How we fought over the coveted goodies, eking out each piece of delicious chocolate over several weeks. We used to listen wide eyed to tales of shopping malls, five storied structures that housed everything from apples to xylophones, where you could spend a whole day and yet not see half of what was on sale.

During that rare overseas trip, we would be dazzled by the glitz, glitter and the profusion of material wonders that were strewn temptingly in our paths. We would assiduously convert all prices to Indian rupees and cluck in horror on discovering that the tiny purse cost the same as a two bed room apartment in Bombay. We would return to India bemoaning the lack of choice and the poor quality of the stuff in our shops. The kids would show off the Mickey Mouse mechanical pencil to all the classmates and the ladies would flaunt the fake Gucci bag at every function.

In conversation with Sujit Saraf

By Nandini Minocha
In the Bay Area, Sujit Saraf is best known as the founder, director and creative head of the Indian theatre company Naatak which recently celebrated its 25th production. But Sujit also works full time at Lockheed Martin as a research scientist and has recently published a novel. He has also directed feature films.

An author, a playwright , a director and a scientist… Sujit  Saraf wears many hats and wears them all well.

I met him for lunch at Dee Dee’s, a no-frills place in Mountain that is authentically Indian, not unlike the subject of my interview.

We had just an hour so I jumped right to it. My first question was, “Who do you see yourself as – a scientist an artist or a director?”

His unassuming reply was, “I’m a writer. ‘Artist’ is a pompous term. And my directorial skills would not stand scrutiny when set beside the skills of others known for that. However, I believe I compete with distinction in the art of writing”.  His novel “The Peacock Throne” has just been picked up by Sceptre for distribution in Europe and India.
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The rocking seniors of Jollywood

By Vidya Pradhan

The scene is now a pretty familiar one in the Bay Area. A group of would-be Bollywood dancers waits patiently as the instructor performs the move of a well know Hindi film song. Then the dancers attempt to mimic the instructor with varying degrees of success. What’s different? All the dancers are between 60 and 75 years old and the best of them perform in a dancing troupe known as ‘Jollywood’!

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YouTube vs. Viacom – The return of the King

By Basab Pradhan 

The old adage “Content is king” doesn’t seem to be borne out by the post-bubble resurgence of new media. The three companies that have benefited by this resurgence the most are Google, Apple and YouTube, which is now part of Google. None of them create content. In the post-bubble period the market values created by the three companies are as below:

1. Google – $144 B (Google was privately held before their IPO in August 2004).
2. Apple – $51 B (incremental since March 10, 2000)
3. YouTube – $1.7 B for an 18 month old startup.

On the other hand, Time Warner has lost a whopping $197 B in market cap from its high in March 2000. CBS, Viacom and Universal haven’t done too well either.

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