Amar Seva Sangam: Helping the Disabled Efficiently

By Mahesh Padmanabhan

This summer, I had the opportunity to visit the Amar Seva Sangam. It is an institution that cares deeply about physically and mentally challenged people in India and has the organizational and operational skills to really make a difference to their plight.

My parents had been contributing regularly to this institution – making donations (on my birthday and my sister’sAmar Seva 2 birthday) and getting it more exposure within the media.

I am usually very skeptical about the efficacy of an institution like this in India. With rampant corruption permeating almost every facet of Indian society and virtually no laws or programs in place to address the needs of disabled individuals, I was certain that it would be poorly run and its existence was merely a way to funnel money to its founders and investors.

I resolved to make a trip to Ayakudi, the headquarters of Amar Seva Sangam with a mixture of cynicism and curiosity. Ayakudi is a village beautifully nestled in the foothills of the Western Ghats. The Sangam itself is situated on the outskirts of this idylic village among the ubuiqutous wind farms strewn across the countryside.

I was pleasantly surprised by what I discovered.

Even though the Sangam has grown organically, the tour of the facility made me realize that they had given some thought to planning the growth, resulting in easy access to all buildings within the facility. Wheelchair access sometimes resulted in shorter distances to other buildings.

The Sangam started off as a shed but due to the diligent work of its founders, support staff, donations and sponsorship, has decent facilities now for early childhood intervention, rehabilitation, schooling and vocational training.

Amar Seva 3I had the opportunity to talk to many teachers and administrative staff and I was impressed with their sense of purpose and their enthusiasm for their role and responsibilities. The entire network of people operating and participating in the Sangam felt like a well oiled machine. Many of the teachers and administrative staff come from nearby villages and more
importantly, are products of the Sangam.

The Sangam’s outreach program is equally impressive. Disability, especially in Indian villages, is akin to being a leper so village society shuns disabled individuals. A disabled family member is forced to stay away not just from society but from other family members. This isolation further exacerbates that individual’s psyche and does away with any notion of being a productive member of society.

The outreach program operates in over 600 surrounding villages and takes the hard road of door-to-door education and potentially getting disabled individuals back into the Sangam for rehabilitation and training so that they can make a positive impact to society. The program also has clear structure and guidance on establishing a self-sufficient group comprised of people from the village that can continue the process of education thereby allowing the outreach program to scale.

The Sangam was started as a rehabilitation and training center but has grown to include two things closer to my heart, integrated schooling and early childhood intervention.

Integrated schooling allows normal and disabled children to study and play together thereby increasing tolerance to and understanding of disability at an early age.

Early childhood intervention deals with getting disabled children into the Sangam at as early a stage as possible thereby mitigating the effects of age on self-sufficiency. This is especially true for mental retardation where detecting and starting the rehabilitation program as quickly as possible is critical to the well-being of the child and the child’s progression to
self-sufficiency.

I left Ayakudi uplifted, humbled and determined that I would try my best to keep the Sangam running for years to come. The Sangam relies heavily on donations and sponsorships especially as they are trying to make serious inroads into early childhood intervention, education, continued rehabilation and training.

It is absolutely essential that we do our part in helping this well run institution continue its noble mission. Please check out http://www.amarseva.org or better yet visit the Sangam as a volunteer. Please donate as much or little as you can or get your company to participate in corporate sponsorship of this excellent institution.

Parent Talk Episode 36 – Independent Living Skills

Saturday June 30: This was the last week of College Month on ICc Parent Talk. We talked about teaching kids some independent living skills and financial management skills before going off to college to live on their own for the first time. Guests: Therapist Sushma Trivedi, Financial Consultant Neepa Shah, and Ravi Dev, who recounted his experiences as a freshman in college.

Here is the recording of the show for those who missed it.

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ICC Parent Talk is a weekly radio show sponsored by the India Community Center. It airs on Radio Zindagi, 1550 AM, live on Saturday mornings at 10 a.m. The call in number for the show is 510-7701550.

If you have questions or comments about the show, or if you would like to participate on the show, please drop me a line at radio@indiacc.org. For news about the upcoming shows, check out the ICC Parent Talk page.

Sevathon 2012

sevathon 4I’ve been to Sevathons 1 and 2 and to my pleasant surprise, they’ve been getting bigger and better every year. This is the 4th year of Sevathon and if you’re thinking about participating, get off the fence and register – it’s a great way to spend a Sunday morning. The weather is usually perfect, and if running through the Baylands trails is not your thing, bring a friend or two along and join the motley crew of walkers of all ages, sizes, and dispositions – from determined striders to aunties in saris and tennis shoes with pallus over their heads. Kids dart in and around the grown-ups and it feels like a big moving party, with bananas and bottled water thrown in for good measure. This year there’s free food too, courtesy Peacock Restaurant!

Sevathon, a walk/run event organized by the India Community Center, Sevathon Logo - Web 450_1was conceived as an event to bring together and showcase the many Bay Area non-profits that serve both local and international communities. The Sevathon organizers have broken their previous record and registered a whopping 61 non-profits this year, so expect a total carnival atmosphere with all the tents fluttering in the breeze. There’s kite flying, face painting, and live music. Each organization usually sets up something attractive for the kids to do, so it’s great fun to bring the whole family along and make a morning out of it. And you’ll be doing some good too!

Registered runners and walkers can ask friends to support their efforts. 50% of the registration fee goes to the community, and 100% of donations do, so it’s a great way to make your morning exercise count.

Here’s the site to register and learn more about the event.
http://www.indiacc.org/Sevathon
Sevathon 2012
When: Sunday July 15, 2012. Events start 7 am.
Where: Baylands Park, Sunnyvale

“It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver.”         -Mahatma Gandhi

Parent Talk Episode 35: College Stress

Saturday June 23: Freshman year can be a source of great stress for college students. To talk with me about the topic were therapist Sushma Trivedi and college student Nisha Marathe.

Here is the recording of the show for those who missed it.

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ICC Parent Talk is a weekly radio show sponsored by the India Community Center. It airs on Radio Zindagi, 1550 AM, live on Saturday mornings at 10 a.m. The call in number for the show is 510-7701550.

If you have questions or comments about the show, or if you would like to participate on the show, please drop me a line at radio@indiacc.org. For news about the upcoming shows, check out the ICC Parent Talk page.

Parent Talk Episode 34: College Nutrition

Saturday June 16: Interesting show on how bad nutrition available to college students really is! College students Arvind Srinivasan and Saad jafri shockednutritionist Vijaya Parmeswaran Deo with their knowledge on the constraints college students face when trying to eat healthy, starting with odd class times, and ending with bad cafeteria choices!

Here is the recording of the show for those who missed it.

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ICC Parent Talk is a weekly radio show sponsored by the India Community Center. It airs on Radio Zindagi, 1550 AM, live on Saturday mornings at 10 a.m. The call in number for the show is 510-7701550.

If you have questions or comments about the show, or if you would like to participate on the show, please drop me a line at radio@indiacc.org. For news about the upcoming shows, check out the ICC Parent Talk page.

Parent Talk Episode 33: College Admissions

Saturday June 9: I talked with Sandhya Balakrishnan and Tiffany Lu of Flex Prep about college admissions and why they need not be as stressful as parents and students make them out to be.

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ICC Parent Talk is a weekly radio show sponsored by the India Community Center. It airs on Radio Zindagi, 1550 AM, live on Saturday mornings at 10 a.m. The call in number for the show is 510-7701550.

If you have questions or comments about the show, or if you would like to participate on the show, please drop me a line at radio@indiacc.org. For news about the upcoming shows, check out the ICC Parent Talk page.

Parent Talk Episode 32: Career Coaching and Aptitude Testing

Saturday June 2: My guests Kishma Patnaik of Johnson O’Connor Research Foundation and career coach Louise Goeckel talked about the importance of kids finding their own paths based on their interests and passions.

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ICC Parent Talk is a weekly radio show sponsored by the India Community Center. It airs on Radio Zindagi, 1550 AM, live on Saturday mornings at 10 a.m. The call in number for the show is 510-7701550.

If you have questions or comments about the show, or if you would like to participate on the show, please drop me a line at radio@indiacc.org. For news about the upcoming shows, check out the ICC Parent Talk page.

Parent Talk Episode 31: Post Partum Depression

Saturday May 26: My guests Dr. Nirmaljit Dhami of the Maternal Mood Clinic at the El Camino Hospital and therapist intern Geetha Narayanan talked about the various symptoms of Post Partum Depression and the impact it can have on the mother-child relationship as well as on the rest of the family. Did you know the PPD can present very differently from regular depression? Here is the recording of the show.

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ICC Parent Talk is a weekly radio show sponsored by the India Community Center. It airs on Radio Zindagi, 1550 AM, live on Saturday mornings at 10 a.m. The call in number for the show is 510-7701550.

If you have questions or comments about the show, or if you would like to participate on the show, please drop me a line at radio@indiacc.org. For news about the upcoming shows, check out the ICC Parent Talk page.

Seminar on Mindful Parenting

MINDFUL INTERACTIONS FOR PARENTS

Eight-week series: JULY 11th – AUGUST 30th, 2012: Wednesdays, 7 – 9 PM

Are you wanting …

•    To deepen your relationship with your child?

•    To be more present in your interactions with your child?

•    To move away from threats, rewards and punishments and towards a more empathetic, nurturing and loving home?

•    For tools to better handle conflict with calmness and confidence?

•    For ways to communicate with your family to foster mutual respect and connection?

We would love to have you join us for this eight week series where parents will learn a new philosophy and practice of parenting that is based on connection and empathy and yet is not permissive.
Topics will include brain development, connecting communication, setting and holding limits, emotional intelligence, anger, self-regulation and much more.
The classes are based on Marshall B. Rosenberg’s work in Nonviolent Communication and Echo Parenting & Education’s Nonviolent Parenting philosophy.

All sessions will be held at the Unitarian Universalist Church
505 East Charleston Road
Palo Alto, CA 94306

Series Fee:  $200 per person*

*Limited seats. Registration on a first come first served basis. No one will be turned away for lack of funds.

Please contact Bob or Gayathri if you’re interested in registering for the class.

Bob Niederman
bobniederman@comcast.net
(650) 857-0772

Gayathri Narayanan
gayathri7000@gmail.com
(310) 994-3727

Teens Learn Hindi for Free this Summer

When I last wrote about Madhu Bhasha Kendra ( Hindi has made it !(In Fremont, that is)), founder Madhu Aggarwal was in the process of setting up her own company after having taught at the India Community Center for some time. Since then the program has grown in strength, acquiring not just a stellar reputation but also a WASC certification. ( The Western Association of Schools and Colleges (WASC) is one of six regional accrediting associations in the United States. The Commission provides assistance to schools located in California and other Western states.) Best of all, the Kendra’s after- school Hindi program is accepted for accreditation not just in Fremont but also Milpitas, Palo Alto, Saratoga, Cupertino, and Pleasanton.

This summer, Aggarwal has received a federal grant through the STARTALK program to teach a 5-week course in Hindi. This means that the summer program is completely free for high- and middle-school students.

The program is woven around a virtual tour of India. The students will plan for a trip to India to attend a wedding and will pretend to be staying with a host family. Through this scenario they will learn to interact with their hosts, vendors (for wedding purchases!), and transporation officials. The fun and practical program will also include wedding rituals like Mehndi and Haldi.

The summer program will be held in Mission San Jose High School in Fremont from June 25 to July 27, 2012 from 9:30 am to 1 pm. To get more details check out mbkhindi.org.